So, I built and installed gromox Commit bce3b0c (166 commits old) in a docker container and created my domain., and here is the difference between a working and non-working domain:
Doesn't really mean much to me, but at least now its working for my own domain.
sqldiff broken.com/exmdb/exchange.sqlite3 working.com/exmdb/exchange.sqlite3
UPDATE allocated_eids SET allocate_time=1746427040 WHERE rowid=1;
UPDATE allocated_eids SET allocate_time=1746427040 WHERE rowid=2;
UPDATE allocated_eids SET allocate_time=1746427040 WHERE rowid=3;
UPDATE allocated_eids SET allocate_time=1746427040 WHERE rowid=4;
UPDATE allocated_eids SET allocate_time=1746427040 WHERE rowid=5;
UPDATE configurations SET config_value='ea78f044-dfc5-4907-9555-d0fc19753041' WHERE config_id=1;
UPDATE configurations SET config_value=17 WHERE config_id=10;
DELETE FROM configurations WHERE config_id=11;
UPDATE folder_properties SET propval=133909006400000000 WHERE rowid=8;
UPDATE folder_properties SET propval=133909006400000000 WHERE rowid=9;
UPDATE folder_properties SET propval=133909006400000000 WHERE rowid=10;
UPDATE folder_properties SET propval=133909006400000000 WHERE rowid=11;
UPDATE folder_properties SET propval=x'02000000a5187b6fbcdcea1ed03c5657000000000001' WHERE rowid=12;
UPDATE folder_properties SET propval=x'1602000000a5187b6fbcdcea1ed03c5657000000000001' WHERE rowid=13;
UPDATE folder_properties SET propval=133909006400000000 WHERE rowid=21;
UPDATE folder_properties SET propval=133909006400000000 WHERE rowid=22;
UPDATE folder_properties SET propval=133909006400000000 WHERE rowid=23;
UPDATE folder_properties SET propval=133909006400000000 WHERE rowid=24;
UPDATE folder_properties SET propval=x'02000000a5187b6fbcdcea1ed03c5657000000000002' WHERE rowid=25;
UPDATE folder_properties SET propval=x'1602000000a5187b6fbcdcea1ed03c5657000000000002' WHERE rowid=26;
UPDATE folder_properties SET propval=133909006400000000 WHERE rowid=34;
UPDATE folder_properties SET propval=133909006400000000 WHERE rowid=35;
UPDATE folder_properties SET propval=133909006400000000 WHERE rowid=36;
UPDATE folder_properties SET propval=133909006400000000 WHERE rowid=37;
UPDATE folder_properties SET propval=x'02000000a5187b6fbcdcea1ed03c5657000000000003' WHERE rowid=38;
UPDATE folder_properties SET propval=x'1602000000a5187b6fbcdcea1ed03c5657000000000003' WHERE rowid=39;
UPDATE folder_properties SET propval=133909006400000000 WHERE rowid=47;
UPDATE folder_properties SET propval=133909006400000000 WHERE rowid=48;
UPDATE folder_properties SET propval=133909006400000000 WHERE rowid=49;
UPDATE folder_properties SET propval=133909006400000000 WHERE rowid=50;
UPDATE folder_properties SET propval=x'02000000a5187b6fbcdcea1ed03c5657000000000004' WHERE rowid=51;
UPDATE folder_properties SET propval=x'1602000000a5187b6fbcdcea1ed03c5657000000000004' WHERE rowid=52;
UPDATE store_properties SET propval=133909006400000000 WHERE rowid=1;