I am seeing very similar behavior across multiple systems.
The last version that worked reliably for us was:
gromox-3.7.130
Since updating beyond that version, we started seeing occasional hangs or long-running requests within gromox-http.
Today I updated one system to:
gromox 3.7.242.m0d06f09-lp160.39.1 on openSUSE Leap 16.
With this version, the shutdown / restart behavior of gromox-http has clearly improved — it now stops cleanly and no longer hits the systemd timeout.
However, the underlying issue still seems to be present:
Outlook clients occasionally lose the connection, which suggests that some requests are still hanging or timing out during runtime.
This looks very similar to what is described here regarding long-running (possibly EWS) requests inside gromox-http.